Do not provoke me😤

 so I noticed in this part of the country ."Nigeria" parents are always right even when they are wrong, they never want to admit it. The mind of a growing child is shaped with what he or she sees around.

If he has a low self esteem something must have taken place that messed up with his esteem. If she feels low there must have been an event that has configured her mind and I kid you not most times our parent have a bigger share of the blame.

Even the Bible said it in "Colossians 3:21" fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.... Ephesians 6:4a says same thing it says,
Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath.

What do you think happens when you provoke your child to the extend that they get discouraged? This is the reason why alot grow feeling inferior, feeling betrayed, it is because their said foundation has been tampered and messed.

Do not get me wrong it is ok to try to correct our kids when they are going astray it is ok to discourage them.when heading towards destruction, but note how you do that matters alot.

Parent be careful with your words, action and preference. Acknowledge and admit it when you are wrong. You are not perfect, so therefore you can make mistake. Parent do not make mistake and feel because you are an adult you can justify what you have done. These growing chap are very sensitive. God will help us train up our kids in his way so that when they grow older they will.neved depart from it.

Oh my, I don't know how I'd do this but I'd keep apologising until I am back on track. I'd like to apologise for my inconsistency in my postings.

Have a lovely week ahead
Egogolden.

Awon New year, new me how market 😁

Hey awon temi, how una deyh? I bet you all shinning bright like a diamond 😁😁😁. Before I delve into what we have for today I'd like to ask hope last month wasnt so bad😂😂😥😥🙄🙄I know some people will say "Wendy please old things are past away"😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣it was almost as if January wasnt gonna end. It is well.

Anhan let go to what we have for today, where are all of erm new year revolution people. 🤣😂😂😂😂Jessy be telling me Wendy I ain't gonna take rubbish from no one and that included you this new year if you ain't talking money you talking BS. And I'm like 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.
20th of January my phone rang and it was Jessy ... See conversation below!
Jessy: hey babe how VA na?
Me: good bless God. Babe this one we you call wetin happen?
Jessy: you know that guy I told you about na
Me: which one? Wait first is it a job offer or business deal?
Jessy: no joor that dotun guy
Me: oh yeah I remember... What happened
Jessy: he finally asked me our😍😍😍😍😍
Me: babe you can't be this stupid naw what happened to the new year new you you've been screaming, it didn't even survive 2month Choi
Jessy: what ever mtchewwww and drop call

It's ok to have a new year resolution, my problem isn't with the resolution its with the person making noise about it. At the end of the day it's not about screaming it or writing it down, it's about being discipline enough to actually try doing all that was written down.

Not saying it like it's gonna be easy bad habits don't die easily but when the heart wants to the body obey. Besides I don't think things like that should be louded, change if you wanna change let us be the one to compliment you on the change.

Have a lovely week ahead

Welcome to 2020

Hey guys it's your girl and she is back 😁. Cheregodi let me ask, hope you enjoyed the holidays/celebration 💃💃💃, I for one I enjoyed mine oooo😋😋😋😋😋. Last year Christmas i didn't feel like doing much, I spent all my celebration at home with families. All I was doing is eat, sleep and s**t😂😂🤣🤣🤣😋😋😋😋and I bless God for the gift of life and good health

Before i continue, I want to wish you a Happy New year. I decree and declare this year is our year of abundant blessings, fruitfulness and favor, in Jesus name. Amen 😇😇😇😇😇.

This year is not a year for dulling, it's not the year for procrastination, this year is not the year to hold grudges, guilt and hurt, this year is not the year to be stupid🙄🙄 and I mean it, this year is not a year wey we go look uche face😋😋😋😋 yeah this year we gonna be strong, productive, fruitful, smart working, go getters. This year God is going to help us achieve all that we set our heart and might to do. Amen.

Enhen awon temi abeg this year we no want stupidity person "in lasisi voice😁😋" if you have friends that are not reliable, friend, people or acquaintance that dont contribute positively to your life 😏😏😏😏awon friendenemy, awon bad energies ati bad vibes people abeg jawon si I mean fi wonle ni 2019 we don't want hindrance. Yes you, I am talking to you drop anyone who thinks you cannot make it or live without him or her because the truth is only you have the power to make your self happy or sad, so so not transfer that power to anybody nbok😁. I am not just talking to you but also to myself.

Let us make this year more productive and fun for us, let us interact more, discuss more, share our opinion more, share our issues and worries more. This year we must make am with the help and prayers of one another, we go deyh alright Las Las.

Wishing you all a happy new year once again😘😘😘😘😘😘.
Much love

Revolutionary Protest

So today I was watching kakaaki on AIT and I was so upset. So one cannot come up with an idea to bring Nigeria to order with out been arrested. The CEO of Sahara reporter was arrested for wanting to do the right thing. Mr Omoyele Sowore was arrested for coming up with the revolutionary protest. In kakaaki new I love what the lawyer from ibadan said, constitutionally his protest ok so long as it's not violent.

I want to ask one question why do government get threatened when someone comes up to speak the truth? DSS arrested Mr Sowore for a video he uploaded that said allot relating to the unstable way of living, and other things that needs change in nigeria and viola he was arrested.🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂. Have they arrested all the people who stands as a threat to Nigeria and it's citizens? The herds men, all the politician looting the country? What have they really done? Misplaced priority, the leave what they are supposed to do and do another thing.

I know alot of people will come at me but I don't care. Let me ask how many celebrities supporting this revolutionary protest? How many? Why is it not trending like the busola and coza pastor matter? When an individual comes out for what will benefit the whole civilian it hardly trends, no celebrity talks about it on social media and do you know why? To me I feel it's because they are trying to protect their own interest. You don't matter to them.  They have the money to fly to any country of their choice when gbege happens and you that have been struggling to eat three (3) square meal can't afford the luxury, yet have refused to have sense.

Nigeria is lacking alot that I for one wants the president impeached from all he has said and done so far doesn't look like he has anything to offer us. The dreams of youth is being scattered, there's no job, there's no electricity, the roads are bad, accident happening, herds men terrorizing the nation, no security, the so called police men have becomed broad day light robbers, civilians don't even have freedom of speech anymore, you talk they arrested you and term you a terrorist mean while the real terrorist is out there walking and terrorizing freely.

It is time Nigerians stand up, but no they only use the small data they have to support issues with misplaced priority. Busola and coza pastor trended this much on the issue of rape and I applaud them👏👏👏👏👏👏. Why didn't they also make noise about the girl who was raped, or the priest that was killed, oh yeah they are not celebrities like them so obviously they won't loud it. The bad roads nko, the ditches, the insecurities, etc what am I even saying they don't apply those route or rather they ride big jeep trucks. Phew.

If are a Nigerian and still do not have enough sense to act right and pass reasonable judgment then you are a fool. These celebs are at an advantage, obviously the run shows for most of this politicians so what ever is happening they don't care. Dem no wan enter their bad book.

I am with Sowore on this peaceful revolutionary protest... who do you stand with?

Who is the right person,

Alot of time we ask this question over and over again and still haven't gotten an answer! Phew🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄how tiring.....

Phew the right person..,.. after asking myself this questions I didn't and couldn't get any answer. After trying alot of new things and bending some certain rules in the name of the right person I got to realise there really isn't anything like that. This is my own opinion and what I think, I'd love to know what you think in the comment below 👇

Back to the matter on ground. Who is the right person? Lemme ask you, are you the right person? If you can answer this question then you can answer the question on ground. Pastor Balaji of Hicc would always ask can you date you? Remember you can be very annoying, irritating, sometimes you act dumb and foolish etc do you think someone else can tolerate your shortcomings? If you feel someone should be able to manage some of your short comings maybe because he loves you or she loves you then I think you should do same. If you know you have flaws, have in mind others have flaws too. Thing is don't be foolish about it, know when go quit.

There isn't anything like "right person" or "perfect" when the person no be God. All you can do is get that unright person and brush him or her to suit you. I mean groom your man or woman, work on them and believe me the work isn't a one week or a one year work.

Have you ever asked why single ladies would prefer to date or be with a married man? It's because they have been worked on. Now what they don't know is how hard the woman has worked on him over time or how much energy and time she has invested in moulding him. Let's not be after the finished goods always. How about you mould someone mould that person you feel isn't right for you into what you want.

Note: in trying to mould do not be stupid about it. Don't stay in a wrong relationship where the guy is beating you and you'd say you'd mould him, he will stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂aunty he wee just  kee you, you better run.😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

There isn't no right person, mould that person into the right person that you desire. it's risky not to take risk.
Let's discuss this!
It's still your girl
Egogolden 😘😘😘😘

Motivating the motivator

Have you ever thought to yourself why it seems like some motivational speaker don't practice what they preach? Ok no let me rephrase, have you noticed that when you look at the lives of most of these speaker it's almost an opposite of what they say?


Some of them actually pretend to be what they are not but the real ones, the real motivator also need someone to motivate them.... It's not as if they don't practice what they preach but they have become so empty, that there nothing keeping them going anymore.

Imagine how exhausted youd be when you only pour out without refueling, this has gone beyond reading allot of books to be more knowledgeable in the motivating area of speciality, this has to do with motivation from other people, people who you motivate.


Let me use money as example 1: No matter how wealthy you think you are if you keep spending the money you have with out having any source of income to replace spent money, that money is going to finish and when it does what happens? You break down, you know why because you have been used to the loud spending kinda life that adjusting could either kill you or not.

Example 2: You are a strong woman who tells or preach to other ladies about standing up against domestic abuse by their husband and all of a sudden your husband starts beating you out of fraustration cos he lost his job and you don't know what to do, or should I say know how to apply what you've been teaching or preaching about.

Let's all not think all is always well with this people, let's not also forget they are human being. When I see some kinda scandal or hear some things about some motivational speakers I just pray they come out of what ever it is that's troubling them cos the truth is they are human like us and not God, instead of abusing or insulting them.on their pages or so we should learn to encourage them.


Haven't posted for a while, was over whelmed with the event I was planning, I felt loved and encouraged by some of the people who read my post. It got to the point where I'd always smile to myself telling myself I need to come back and continue from where I stopped.

In one of my conversation with one of my  friend whose also a blogger Oluoma, she said please can you start posting already, I have missed your posts but most importantly you motivate me to be consistent in mine... And I jokingly replied don't forget I also need a motivator. After 30mins it dawned on me that the words that came out jokingly actually came out from.my heart.


Let's never forget that even motivators needs to be motivated.
And oooooooooooo i wanna apologise for my inconsistency for these few weeks.
Love you guys as always.

Don't Be Unfortunate 🙄😏😋

I don't know why I am not a lawyer or a reporter 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂. They'd say you can defend a useless point and be making sense, another will say the level at which you question things and people enh is enough to make them run for their lives😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣


What is wrong with some guys and ladies? Why have they decided to be unfortunate or should I say used by the devil? How can a lady have a male friend who has asked her to marry him and she says no, let's be friends or how can a guy have a female friend who he knows likes him and he likes her so much and he wouldn't tell her how much he feels about her? Why? Why? Why?😬😬😬😈😈😈👹👹👹 It is so annoying.


I went out recently and was hearing some ladies discussing. Infact one of the ladies said an old male friend almost jeopardized her marriage of one month. She's been close friend with the guy for almost 4years and he never said anything she liked him, gave him all the green,blue, black and white light so he could see her 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣but the otondo never said anything. So she decided to get a life. She started distancing, missing his calls and the guy didn't even bother to know why she put up the new attitude.


Two weeks after her marriage the unfortunate goat called while she was still in bed with her husband. She said "As I pick the call na shout I begin hear😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😀😀😀😁." The guy said "how can you get married and not tell me? You are so wicked, so heartless🤣😀😀😀😀😀😀." She said she was shocked.
Firstly, she left her matrimonial bed before an unfortunate fool puts her in trouble. She said she went to her sitting room and asked "who is this?" He told her and she was amazed... "like seriously" 😱😱😱😱🙄🙄🙄😏 she exclaimed. Then she got angry and didn't wanna argue so she told the guy "oh, well I am married now so please stay away."


You know me naw my gbegborun antenna just picked enough signal 😁😀😂😂😂 omo na him I go meet the ladies gisting.


Me: hi ladies sorry I erm was listening to your gist, forgive my manners my name is EGO and I am so interested in this gist cause guys can so be so annoying  and I asked the lady telling her story what her name was and she said korede.

Korede: some guys are not just annoying they are dump and act stupid. Ego that wasn't the end oooo, the fool kept calling till my husband got to know and even got familiar with the number cos I stopped picking his call.


Me: ouch korede that was a wrong move, you just gave him a reason to suspect you are having an affair with him or give him a reason to be curious.


Korede: what would I have done. I was so upset, I really liked him, I thought he was gonna come around when I left gradually but he didn't now he's talking love and how much he likes me and why I didn't tell him I was getting married. He had his chance and didn't use it, so what am I to do for him?


One of the other ladies by name Nosa asked so what now happened........


I'd continue in my next post. Lemme Goan read for exams 😘😘😘😘😘