Do not provoke me😤

 so I noticed in this part of the country ."Nigeria" parents are always right even when they are wrong, they never want to admit it. The mind of a growing child is shaped with what he or she sees around.

If he has a low self esteem something must have taken place that messed up with his esteem. If she feels low there must have been an event that has configured her mind and I kid you not most times our parent have a bigger share of the blame.

Even the Bible said it in "Colossians 3:21" fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.... Ephesians 6:4a says same thing it says,
Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath.

What do you think happens when you provoke your child to the extend that they get discouraged? This is the reason why alot grow feeling inferior, feeling betrayed, it is because their said foundation has been tampered and messed.

Do not get me wrong it is ok to try to correct our kids when they are going astray it is ok to discourage them.when heading towards destruction, but note how you do that matters alot.

Parent be careful with your words, action and preference. Acknowledge and admit it when you are wrong. You are not perfect, so therefore you can make mistake. Parent do not make mistake and feel because you are an adult you can justify what you have done. These growing chap are very sensitive. God will help us train up our kids in his way so that when they grow older they will.neved depart from it.

Oh my, I don't know how I'd do this but I'd keep apologising until I am back on track. I'd like to apologise for my inconsistency in my postings.

Have a lovely week ahead
Egogolden.

Awon New year, new me how market 😁

Hey awon temi, how una deyh? I bet you all shinning bright like a diamond 😁😁😁. Before I delve into what we have for today I'd like to ask hope last month wasnt so bad😂😂😥😥🙄🙄I know some people will say "Wendy please old things are past away"😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣it was almost as if January wasnt gonna end. It is well.

Anhan let go to what we have for today, where are all of erm new year revolution people. 🤣😂😂😂😂Jessy be telling me Wendy I ain't gonna take rubbish from no one and that included you this new year if you ain't talking money you talking BS. And I'm like 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.
20th of January my phone rang and it was Jessy ... See conversation below!
Jessy: hey babe how VA na?
Me: good bless God. Babe this one we you call wetin happen?
Jessy: you know that guy I told you about na
Me: which one? Wait first is it a job offer or business deal?
Jessy: no joor that dotun guy
Me: oh yeah I remember... What happened
Jessy: he finally asked me our😍😍😍😍😍
Me: babe you can't be this stupid naw what happened to the new year new you you've been screaming, it didn't even survive 2month Choi
Jessy: what ever mtchewwww and drop call

It's ok to have a new year resolution, my problem isn't with the resolution its with the person making noise about it. At the end of the day it's not about screaming it or writing it down, it's about being discipline enough to actually try doing all that was written down.

Not saying it like it's gonna be easy bad habits don't die easily but when the heart wants to the body obey. Besides I don't think things like that should be louded, change if you wanna change let us be the one to compliment you on the change.

Have a lovely week ahead

Welcome to 2020

Hey guys it's your girl and she is back 😁. Cheregodi let me ask, hope you enjoyed the holidays/celebration 💃💃💃, I for one I enjoyed mine oooo😋😋😋😋😋. Last year Christmas i didn't feel like doing much, I spent all my celebration at home with families. All I was doing is eat, sleep and s**t😂😂🤣🤣🤣😋😋😋😋and I bless God for the gift of life and good health

Before i continue, I want to wish you a Happy New year. I decree and declare this year is our year of abundant blessings, fruitfulness and favor, in Jesus name. Amen 😇😇😇😇😇.

This year is not a year for dulling, it's not the year for procrastination, this year is not the year to hold grudges, guilt and hurt, this year is not the year to be stupid🙄🙄 and I mean it, this year is not a year wey we go look uche face😋😋😋😋 yeah this year we gonna be strong, productive, fruitful, smart working, go getters. This year God is going to help us achieve all that we set our heart and might to do. Amen.

Enhen awon temi abeg this year we no want stupidity person "in lasisi voice😁😋" if you have friends that are not reliable, friend, people or acquaintance that dont contribute positively to your life 😏😏😏😏awon friendenemy, awon bad energies ati bad vibes people abeg jawon si I mean fi wonle ni 2019 we don't want hindrance. Yes you, I am talking to you drop anyone who thinks you cannot make it or live without him or her because the truth is only you have the power to make your self happy or sad, so so not transfer that power to anybody nbok😁. I am not just talking to you but also to myself.

Let us make this year more productive and fun for us, let us interact more, discuss more, share our opinion more, share our issues and worries more. This year we must make am with the help and prayers of one another, we go deyh alright Las Las.

Wishing you all a happy new year once again😘😘😘😘😘😘.
Much love