Curb your Taste

So yeah I am going to speak a harsh truth today.
Ladies and Gentlemen it is high time we do not let greed take the better part of us. It is only greed that'd make you want what you know you cannot afford and don't need. I would even say cut your coat according to your size anymore you gotta cut your coat according to your material.

Let us learn to be contented with what we have while we aspire and work toward getting or achieving more for ourselves. I am tired of hearing ladies tell me 'Gold' there was no other option or telling me I had to give in to take care of my family, excuse you there are and you had alot of options you just choose the one you felt was the easy way out. How about getting a sales girl job? How about buying and selling? How about cleaning people's houses? Oh they sound like dirty job right ok ooooo. Guys you can do factory jobs, sales boy, learn a trade there's always a way without having to settle for the bad things.

I am also tired of hearing guys say Gold I had to do what I had to do. What explanation do you give for a guy whose still under his parents custody, whose parent still fend for at age 15 even in secondary School already engaging in fraud just so he can feel among when he's with his rich friends. We all wanna be able to afford what we want but we have to also bear in mind that our taste should be in line with our financial capacity.

Yes let your taste be in accordance to your financial capacity, let what you want be in the daily, weekly, monthly or quarterly budget of what you can afford and when you can afford it. Do not throw away your destiny or future jusy for the now enjoyment. God will see us through.

Tell No One

Hey, have you noticed that when you let alot of people in on what you intend doing or what you intend achieving it flops? You got to learn the pattern that works for you. Yeah I know out of excitement we tend to tell people what we wanna do before we do it. This is me being honest with you all, tell no one what you wanna do till you have done it what ever it maybe unless of course you are married and your spouse supports you in everyway.

Do not think because they are your best friend they are always gonna be happy with all your achievements even blood envy themselves talk more of friends. The truth is when something big wanna happen for you and you tell someone who you think loves you and the person begins to envy you or emits a negative thought towards that thing often times it ends up not happening. That is why you'd always hear stay away from negative people.

Like I said follow the pattern that works for you... If you use to tell people things you wanna do before you do them and it flops then "TELL NO ONE" when you want to do something, or when there's a major thing happening in your life. Truth is when you tell them, you'd think they are happy for you, when it flops you'd think they feel bad or sorry it didn't but they happy.

Follow the pattern and "tell no one" let them see the achievement. It pays to live a private life, you don't have to tell everyone everything. Keep it to yourself, love you, do you, live your life and be happy. The only ones who can hurt you are the people closest to you.

If you feel like talking and wanna tell someone about what's happening in your life trust me God is a good listener and his intentions and thoughts for you is always of Good.

Love you.
Egogolden

   

Look at your Mate

How are you all doing? What's on your mind? You know this statement 'Look at your mate' has made people do things they wouldn't do naturally. I think it is time we do thing within the pace God has allowed us to be, there isn't any need to rush after all drops of water makes a river or ocean.

Never compare your self to anyone no mater what. You may be same age and he is successful, you may be older than her and she is married with kids, you may be twenty five (25) or above thirty  and be having your first degree it doesn't matter. Remember it isn't about how far but how well. That you are where you are doesn't mean no good will come out of your slow process.

Ladies do not let this statement 'Look at your mate' destroy you, don't go with another woman's man out of desperation, don't marry a man you don't love or want because you feel your biological clock is ticking. Pastor bolaji idowu of HICC would always say if your biological clock is ticking take out the battery. Never settle for less in anything be patient and your own will locate you stresslessly.

Gentlemen do not let the statement 'look at your mate' make you dip your hand in bad things, do not hurt a woman's emotion because you want her money,  yeah I know we wanna be rich and successful how about you work, learn a trade or something to make clean money, you don't even have to do Yahoo, fraud to be successful. I know a guy who graduated with first class he started life by working in a factory doing shifts just to make money and some other people who started with nothing. Start little and the sky will be your limit. Go and ask all the millionaires and billionaire they will tell you how long it took them to get to where they are now, they all started little don't be decieved there is nothing like quick money. Even  blood money isn't guaranteed plus you'd be given number of years to enjoy the money so what's the point.

How about you go through the process, make your money legally and morally and enjoy the fruit of your labour. Nobody is saying it will be easy, but it will be worth it and you'd have a story to tell that'd also help others.
Always be legit, moral and true to yourself. Do not let  the statement 'Look at your mate' make you loose your self or forget who you truely are.

 In everything let God come first.
God bless you.

Missing you, But stay Away

Hey you ever missed someone so badly but deep down you know all they bring is negativity, bad vibes, hurts, disappointment...... Oh well it's okay just don't let them close to you anymore so you won't give them to power to do same thing they keep doing to you.


And yeah it's ok, you'd be fine Las Las all you'd do is miss them but don't let them.back.into your life else you'd keep hurting.... In the first place I be wandering why you even missing such a person when all they do is cause you pain, then I realise that no matter how bad a person is or treats you they'd have a strength you'd never forget.


If they hurt you, disappoint you, look down on you, fight you, not support you.... Stay away from them .. it's okay to miss them and that's cause you love them and will always love them, keeping them far dont show weakness, it shows strength.

Your gonna be alright'.

Happy new year

Hey lovelies,

How yua all been? Hope you made the very best of your holiday? And you enjoyed every bit of it. You know we really do not need all the money in the world to be happy. One thing I realized is that it takes you and you alone to make your self happy.

I had and made the very best of this holiday, I used it in restrategizing, replanning, learning by books and internet and finding means to build my self not just for others but also for me and in all I didn't forget to involve God in all that I do as he is a very or should I say the very important, no importanter part of my life. Lol yeah.

Wishing you all a happy, prosperous and a favoured  new year.
Love you
EgoGolden

Staying Happy

I know we have heard this so many times, it's aiit to keep hearing it sometimes repetition of words help us practice them. I ain't gonna sugar coat nada we should be selfish at choosing friends. We have the power to be happy or sad and that is dependant on who we left into our lives be it male or female. Have you ever had this female friend who would always Pierce your soul, by snitching or been jealous? Or a friend who'd act like they all good making you look like a bad person to others? Sister you should cut her off, this also goes for the guys. Nobody I repeat nobody has the power to make you sad unless you let them.

Take charge, have a lovely weekend

 Sweethearts yeah I know I've missed you too. How you all been?

What really do you meditate on?

Hey lovelies,

It's been a while, and I must say my inconsistency is also killing me I am sorry.
Going by out topic what really do you meditate on?, what takes your listening time, watching time, reading time. All the time we become what we mediate on. Take for example after a heart break you keep listening to some sorrowful blues, the heart break and pains will not go away and this could result to sucide, or you keep reading romantic books, porn etc before you know what's happening you begin to act it. We are what we meditate on.

Imagine reading the word of God, reading inspirational and motivational books, listening to Christian or meaningful songs contiously or unconsciously you begin to speak the word, you become positive no matter what the world throws at you, you combat it bases on what you meditate on.

Let us set our heart on the right things.