Take a chance

Hey peeps I have been so tied up with stuffs that I cannot even find myself anyways that's by the way...  Today our discussion is gonna be to guys and babes mostly to babes!

On a serious note ladies who said your boyfriend should be the one paying most or all your bills? I hear some ladies say he doesn't even takia of me,  he won't give me money for hair,  shopping or even pocket money and he'd want to do.. Ha NNE! Is the money for the doing? Lmao,  Is it his responsibility? Does he look like your parent, uncle, aunty or relatives?  I'd suggest you get busy!  Yes you get a hand work or a job.

Ladies I'd sincerely advice you to get something going on for your self that'd be a source of income and by that I mean something legit!  Yes legit.  See enh most guys would rather support their babe whose into business or so than just giving you money for what? *I don't even know* there are so maythings we can lay our hands on for daily income if getting a job is difficult handwork like:

Fashion designing, hair dressing, carpentry, craft, soap making, and many more.

Chioma my love was trending, he bought her whatever and yua jumping upanda, you want your man to be like davido ok you be like chioma cos I don't think chioma is jobless she has got something going for her... Get something going for you same goes to the lazy youth guys

Take a chance and do something for yourself

Admit It!

Hey peeps been a while,  I bet a lot of people look at you and the things that you do,  how you manage to handle situations, life issues or so. Because you handled it with wisdom, courage they question your sanity simply because you didn't compromise like they would have.

So yeah I am telling you,  you are different,  you are you. Never feel bad about who you are, cause you are you and their is only one you in this world....  Yes you are special, you are beautiful and it is just okay!

Joker

I really do not know if they following them from their village or so..  But you'd imagine a guy who has a lovely babe or a babe who has a lovely guy and they'd take erm for granted and when they loose that person they'd begin to regret forgetting how much pain and hurt the person went through while the relationship lasted. Here is the thing if anyone ever takes you for a joke, leave the person like it is funny... Lmao ...  Do not stay back hoping you'd change him or her if he or she was gonna change they'd have changed! .

God for all, God in all

Hey,  you know say last last we need GOD in all.....  It don't matter if we read all the books there is to read about relationships,  or you read books on how to handle,  manage a relationship,  how to know he's the one or she's the one, or 37 questions to ask him or her,  signs to look out for and all of that...  You could do all of that and still miss it.

This is jess a reminder that we need Jesus in all that we do, let's bring him in,  let's let him in he'd never disappoint nor  leave you.

I got a punch line from a movie I bet yua all seen the movie a million and one times  don said "its not about the wheel, it depends on whose behind the wheel," Jesus is behind my wheel...  I urge you to let him be behind yours.

God  bless you, TGIF

Egogolden

I used her/him

Hello peeps .. yeah i know its been a while lmao i have been a lazy youth heheheheheheh bubu wee not kee me. Ok on a very serious note it irritates me when i hear guys counting chicks they have slept with like it is an achievement when their mates are counting millions or positive achievements that has helped or is helping grow Nigeria as a nation.

So one of my little girl cried to me with a munched shot of the boyfriends conversation with an old male friend of hers shes been doing shakara for.. Ladies you know that feeling it is so heart breaking, the more i read that chat the more i was irritated.

Now lets be real as much as i am not a fan of sex before marriage once you sleep with anyone you not married to, you both using yourselves. In fact not only only are you using yourselves you become equal, so i say this to all of the guys and ladies who think they smart and they shaprapra when you sleep with some one you automatically become their equal and no one is using anyone you both using yourselves so i would advice you use your time, energy, resources and emotions wisely.

I don't know you!

Hey sorry peeps I've  been inconsistent alot been going on,  I know you all missed me. Ok so we gonna ask this...  Would you  wanna still be friends with an ex who prolly hurt you? I kinda saw an ex ermm he really didn't hurt me,  I said I wasn't gonna do sex  in the relationship he agreed and a month into the "relationship" I visited unannounced and I saw brother giving it to another from the back.... So I ended it.

As I was saying I saw him with some colleague and walked pass I guess he was having lunch at ICM and he called my name outta excitement I guess..
Him: hey golden
Me: ermmm sorry have we met
Him: (shocked) ...  Golden it is Smart
Me: (looking confused) errrmn smmmaaarrrtt sorry the name don't ring no bell...  I guess I look like some one you know..
I said hi to his colleagues eating and walked away....

When I got to the movie section of ICM got my ticket the thought got me laughing like Omg...  It isn't like I hold any grudge or so I don't even have exes all I've got are few examples that shouldn't repeat itself...  Lmao

I ask again would you wanna be friends with someone who hurt you emotionally?

Wisdom to know the difference

Hey peeps, iyaf miss una oo... so today we gonna be gisting about the two kind or set of  people we meet. See in all we need the wisdom of God to differentiate between these two people is needed, no matter how smart you think you are you are going to fall without seeing it coming, infact you would be shocked when caught in between. we know God only sends good things our way, need i remind you that the guy who roams around seeking whom to devour also sends his own person.

Always be prayerful most importantly ask God for his wisdom in choosing friends or getting close to acquaintance so as to know which was sent by him or by the devil.