Who is the right person,

Alot of time we ask this question over and over again and still haven't gotten an answer! Phew🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄how tiring.....

Phew the right person..,.. after asking myself this questions I didn't and couldn't get any answer. After trying alot of new things and bending some certain rules in the name of the right person I got to realise there really isn't anything like that. This is my own opinion and what I think, I'd love to know what you think in the comment below 👇

Back to the matter on ground. Who is the right person? Lemme ask you, are you the right person? If you can answer this question then you can answer the question on ground. Pastor Balaji of Hicc would always ask can you date you? Remember you can be very annoying, irritating, sometimes you act dumb and foolish etc do you think someone else can tolerate your shortcomings? If you feel someone should be able to manage some of your short comings maybe because he loves you or she loves you then I think you should do same. If you know you have flaws, have in mind others have flaws too. Thing is don't be foolish about it, know when go quit.

There isn't anything like "right person" or "perfect" when the person no be God. All you can do is get that unright person and brush him or her to suit you. I mean groom your man or woman, work on them and believe me the work isn't a one week or a one year work.

Have you ever asked why single ladies would prefer to date or be with a married man? It's because they have been worked on. Now what they don't know is how hard the woman has worked on him over time or how much energy and time she has invested in moulding him. Let's not be after the finished goods always. How about you mould someone mould that person you feel isn't right for you into what you want.

Note: in trying to mould do not be stupid about it. Don't stay in a wrong relationship where the guy is beating you and you'd say you'd mould him, he will stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂aunty he wee just  kee you, you better run.😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

There isn't no right person, mould that person into the right person that you desire. it's risky not to take risk.
Let's discuss this!
It's still your girl
Egogolden 😘😘😘😘

Motivating the motivator

Have you ever thought to yourself why it seems like some motivational speaker don't practice what they preach? Ok no let me rephrase, have you noticed that when you look at the lives of most of these speaker it's almost an opposite of what they say?


Some of them actually pretend to be what they are not but the real ones, the real motivator also need someone to motivate them.... It's not as if they don't practice what they preach but they have become so empty, that there nothing keeping them going anymore.

Imagine how exhausted youd be when you only pour out without refueling, this has gone beyond reading allot of books to be more knowledgeable in the motivating area of speciality, this has to do with motivation from other people, people who you motivate.


Let me use money as example 1: No matter how wealthy you think you are if you keep spending the money you have with out having any source of income to replace spent money, that money is going to finish and when it does what happens? You break down, you know why because you have been used to the loud spending kinda life that adjusting could either kill you or not.

Example 2: You are a strong woman who tells or preach to other ladies about standing up against domestic abuse by their husband and all of a sudden your husband starts beating you out of fraustration cos he lost his job and you don't know what to do, or should I say know how to apply what you've been teaching or preaching about.

Let's all not think all is always well with this people, let's not also forget they are human being. When I see some kinda scandal or hear some things about some motivational speakers I just pray they come out of what ever it is that's troubling them cos the truth is they are human like us and not God, instead of abusing or insulting them.on their pages or so we should learn to encourage them.


Haven't posted for a while, was over whelmed with the event I was planning, I felt loved and encouraged by some of the people who read my post. It got to the point where I'd always smile to myself telling myself I need to come back and continue from where I stopped.

In one of my conversation with one of my  friend whose also a blogger Oluoma, she said please can you start posting already, I have missed your posts but most importantly you motivate me to be consistent in mine... And I jokingly replied don't forget I also need a motivator. After 30mins it dawned on me that the words that came out jokingly actually came out from.my heart.


Let's never forget that even motivators needs to be motivated.
And oooooooooooo i wanna apologise for my inconsistency for these few weeks.
Love you guys as always.