Staying Happy

I know we have heard this so many times, it's aiit to keep hearing it sometimes repetition of words help us practice them. I ain't gonna sugar coat nada we should be selfish at choosing friends. We have the power to be happy or sad and that is dependant on who we left into our lives be it male or female. Have you ever had this female friend who would always Pierce your soul, by snitching or been jealous? Or a friend who'd act like they all good making you look like a bad person to others? Sister you should cut her off, this also goes for the guys. Nobody I repeat nobody has the power to make you sad unless you let them.

Take charge, have a lovely weekend

 Sweethearts yeah I know I've missed you too. How you all been?

What really do you meditate on?

Hey lovelies,

It's been a while, and I must say my inconsistency is also killing me I am sorry.
Going by out topic what really do you meditate on?, what takes your listening time, watching time, reading time. All the time we become what we mediate on. Take for example after a heart break you keep listening to some sorrowful blues, the heart break and pains will not go away and this could result to sucide, or you keep reading romantic books, porn etc before you know what's happening you begin to act it. We are what we meditate on.

Imagine reading the word of God, reading inspirational and motivational books, listening to Christian or meaningful songs contiously or unconsciously you begin to speak the word, you become positive no matter what the world throws at you, you combat it bases on what you meditate on.

Let us set our heart on the right things.

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Take a chance

Hey peeps I have been so tied up with stuffs that I cannot even find myself anyways that's by the way...  Today our discussion is gonna be to guys and babes mostly to babes!

On a serious note ladies who said your boyfriend should be the one paying most or all your bills? I hear some ladies say he doesn't even takia of me,  he won't give me money for hair,  shopping or even pocket money and he'd want to do.. Ha NNE! Is the money for the doing? Lmao,  Is it his responsibility? Does he look like your parent, uncle, aunty or relatives?  I'd suggest you get busy!  Yes you get a hand work or a job.

Ladies I'd sincerely advice you to get something going on for your self that'd be a source of income and by that I mean something legit!  Yes legit.  See enh most guys would rather support their babe whose into business or so than just giving you money for what? *I don't even know* there are so maythings we can lay our hands on for daily income if getting a job is difficult handwork like:

Fashion designing, hair dressing, carpentry, craft, soap making, and many more.

Chioma my love was trending, he bought her whatever and yua jumping upanda, you want your man to be like davido ok you be like chioma cos I don't think chioma is jobless she has got something going for her... Get something going for you same goes to the lazy youth guys

Take a chance and do something for yourself

Admit It!

Hey peeps been a while,  I bet a lot of people look at you and the things that you do,  how you manage to handle situations, life issues or so. Because you handled it with wisdom, courage they question your sanity simply because you didn't compromise like they would have.

So yeah I am telling you,  you are different,  you are you. Never feel bad about who you are, cause you are you and their is only one you in this world....  Yes you are special, you are beautiful and it is just okay!

Joker

I really do not know if they following them from their village or so..  But you'd imagine a guy who has a lovely babe or a babe who has a lovely guy and they'd take erm for granted and when they loose that person they'd begin to regret forgetting how much pain and hurt the person went through while the relationship lasted. Here is the thing if anyone ever takes you for a joke, leave the person like it is funny... Lmao ...  Do not stay back hoping you'd change him or her if he or she was gonna change they'd have changed! .

God for all, God in all

Hey,  you know say last last we need GOD in all.....  It don't matter if we read all the books there is to read about relationships,  or you read books on how to handle,  manage a relationship,  how to know he's the one or she's the one, or 37 questions to ask him or her,  signs to look out for and all of that...  You could do all of that and still miss it.

This is jess a reminder that we need Jesus in all that we do, let's bring him in,  let's let him in he'd never disappoint nor  leave you.

I got a punch line from a movie I bet yua all seen the movie a million and one times  don said "its not about the wheel, it depends on whose behind the wheel," Jesus is behind my wheel...  I urge you to let him be behind yours.

God  bless you, TGIF

Egogolden

I used her/him

Hello peeps .. yeah i know its been a while lmao i have been a lazy youth heheheheheheh bubu wee not kee me. Ok on a very serious note it irritates me when i hear guys counting chicks they have slept with like it is an achievement when their mates are counting millions or positive achievements that has helped or is helping grow Nigeria as a nation.

So one of my little girl cried to me with a munched shot of the boyfriends conversation with an old male friend of hers shes been doing shakara for.. Ladies you know that feeling it is so heart breaking, the more i read that chat the more i was irritated.

Now lets be real as much as i am not a fan of sex before marriage once you sleep with anyone you not married to, you both using yourselves. In fact not only only are you using yourselves you become equal, so i say this to all of the guys and ladies who think they smart and they shaprapra when you sleep with some one you automatically become their equal and no one is using anyone you both using yourselves so i would advice you use your time, energy, resources and emotions wisely.

I don't know you!

Hey sorry peeps I've  been inconsistent alot been going on,  I know you all missed me. Ok so we gonna ask this...  Would you  wanna still be friends with an ex who prolly hurt you? I kinda saw an ex ermm he really didn't hurt me,  I said I wasn't gonna do sex  in the relationship he agreed and a month into the "relationship" I visited unannounced and I saw brother giving it to another from the back.... So I ended it.

As I was saying I saw him with some colleague and walked pass I guess he was having lunch at ICM and he called my name outta excitement I guess..
Him: hey golden
Me: ermmm sorry have we met
Him: (shocked) ...  Golden it is Smart
Me: (looking confused) errrmn smmmaaarrrtt sorry the name don't ring no bell...  I guess I look like some one you know..
I said hi to his colleagues eating and walked away....

When I got to the movie section of ICM got my ticket the thought got me laughing like Omg...  It isn't like I hold any grudge or so I don't even have exes all I've got are few examples that shouldn't repeat itself...  Lmao

I ask again would you wanna be friends with someone who hurt you emotionally?

Wisdom to know the difference

Hey peeps, iyaf miss una oo... so today we gonna be gisting about the two kind or set of  people we meet. See in all we need the wisdom of God to differentiate between these two people is needed, no matter how smart you think you are you are going to fall without seeing it coming, infact you would be shocked when caught in between. we know God only sends good things our way, need i remind you that the guy who roams around seeking whom to devour also sends his own person.

Always be prayerful most importantly ask God for his wisdom in choosing friends or getting close to acquaintance so as to know which was sent by him or by the devil.

Take Responsibility

The pics says it all but amma buttress a little. I believe the very moment we can differentiate right from wrong we should take responsibility for our action, decision etc. if you feel you are old enough to have sex as a man or a woman what ever happens after that both party should take responsibility of the baby. If as a wife or husband you make a decision that put the family at risk take responsibility do not apportion blame to anyone.

Often time i hear people say it wasn't my fault and when i get to hear the whole story i am like girl you at fault own it, take responsibility and look for a solution or so.

A part of me feel we actually know the right thing to do, we just dont wanna do cause we running away from that responsibility or scared of how much hurt we would go through doing the right thing... Some of these responsibility might be a big step, id still encourage us to take it.

Lovely day yua all

Nigeria A Failed Country

So I passed oshodi today and I saw almost 100 dirty looking unfortunate boys (Agbero) collecting money from conductors and the first thing that came to my mind is what is lagos state government doing? What is he doing? My answer is Nothing. He is doing nothing this is so annoying this government is the worst ever.

Mr President and Mr Lagos state governor please what has been your achievement I mean aside breaking the road, increment in land use charge and other happenings...  I am so disappointed,.


We,  I can't wait for this nightmare to be over,  I know we will raise again but before that happens these bad bloods need to be out. That said I need fresh air cause these guys stinking like spoilt egg jess

Criminal investigation

Hey lovelies, wanna ask would you let your boyfriend,  girlfriend,  wife,  husband, have full access to your phone?  I've asked a couple of people this Same question and I got funny response...  I am not gonna be talking plenty or so, all Amma say is your spouse is supposed to have access to your phone if they want to at least it gives them the assurance that you not hiding nada from  them. I wouldn't advice we Make it a habit though maybe once in a while plus I think people whose conscious about their spouses phone don't trust erm.

If you trust your man or your woman you won't be all over his or her phone like an fbi agent, me for one I ain't interested in MA man's phone if he wanna show me something on his phone or so cool,  if not I am good. Unless you suspecting your spouse it isn't healthy to always wanna check baes phone.

Pierced Soul

I may not understand what you going through,  I may not understand the level of your hurt but I can tell you one thing for sure when Faith is at Work, all your heart desire will be granted.  Answers may not be immediately,  pains and hurt will not just disappear it will vanish,  you wouldn't even know it.

This is for someone out there whose been going through one thing or the other....  Stay in there,  keep praying have faith and trust me God will step into all the situation.  Truth is I don't wanna know what is piecing your soul all I know is the is nothing to big or impossible for God and with God,  all you gotta do is believe in him. If he could heal my pierced Soul,  if he could help me forgive myself,  trust me yours is a piece of cake.

Your personal relationship with God matters,  knowing and seeking God is beyond Sunday service...  Pray without season.. Remember you are a product of what you take in..  Listen to the word of God,  listen to gospel spirit filled song and see things turn around for you. .  You'd be fine

I love you all

Daughter in-law Beater

Hey guys you miss me? i missed you too. Ok so this is not funny at all so i witnessed a woman beat up her son wife.. i have been livid and i still am.
My question is what right does a she have to beat her sons wife? come to think about it me on my part i think he gave her the opportunity in one way or the other to do such.... anhan oginidi, kilode i never see bu afunugom na only for African magic i deyh see MAMA G do all this kin magic little i did i know it happens in reality. Ikegwurum

Missing Kid

Hey lovelies report got to me about a missing  boy who was kidnapped 6 months ago and was abandoned on a lonely road,  I am grateful to God that he was abandoned who knows their initial intention! . Lets help this child reunite with his parents again. Please SHARE and Share and keep sharing until this information gets to his relatives or parent.
Please share.  Sharing is the least you can do for this little boy.
The little boys pic is below.

Maybe Something Changed

Hello guys, as we were saying i got a lot of response and comment regarding the lady whose fiance of more than 10yrs said he doesn't want life with her anymore.

I wanna buttress one of the comment.. he said may be she stopped dressing well for him! my response dressing isn't the issue the woman i delivered items to on different occasion is a slay queen. someone else said maybe she doesn't satisfy him well on bed! in my mind [what the heck is wrong with most guys] my response, out of 100 relationships only 1% don't do sex before marriage the remaining 99% do sex before marriage so he knew or knows her strength on bed... if while they were dating she didn't do 360 for him why is he expecting 360 after marriage when he already knows how far she can go or so. if he felt she wasn't satisfying him well enough he would have gone while they were dating and not marry or engage her only to realize she cant satisfy him.

See you guys tomorrow

Izza Side Chick

hey guys sorry i couldnt post last night was down with flu, anyways continuing from where we stopped in our last post. so i got alot of comment privately from friends and all which i would come back to later this evening first of all let me finish with this.

so my customer said she knows her husband has a girlfriend and maybe he has fallen in love with her... What came to my mind was [woman you got to be kidding me] i didnt type that to her, i replied with so you knew all along that he had a side chick and what you do about that? she went all cold... i be like in my mind [why are most guys such a cheat] i replied ma you have to pray about it that is all you can do.

Guys here is the shocker i asked her where she was and she said her mums place i was like why, you should be at your husbands place unless you giving up so easily and i heard the ice breaker.... "we arent legally married we did only intro" in my mind i fainted and got back up, only intro for more than ten years or so. She said they were planning to do wedding proper before her Fiance dad passed away and everything scattered.

My advice still remains prayer, it is the key to everything. Still this is emotional betrayal

Betrayed Affection

Yeah so i am here again so i have been feeling down about somethings happening in my life and all so i decided to soak my self with work as usual. one faithful morning while i posted a few of what i sell on my status i decided to message a couple of my loyal customers they all were cool but one.

So yeah i love money, at the same time i believe it isnt all about the money plus if customers are in good state of mind they would order all they need from you and that is more money...  Anyways i decided to further chat up this particular customer and she said and i quote "MY HUSBAND SAID HE DOESN'T WANT LIFE WITH ME NO MORE" i was num for 30 sec i was trying to understand what that meant. i replied "Wow, what happened how can he say that to you after all these years.

I encouraged her to pray about it but we know how hurtful this is.... what would you advice her to do? i am still in shock.... common say boyfriend\girlfriend wey you love leave you or so i know as e deyh pain talk more of a woman who already has a son who is 10year old if i am not mistaken and a little girl.... oroyi su mi ooooo.

REALITY by Ego.G