Reason with me

Lol so I can't stop laughing, this reason with me really made me remember alot of things. Before I continue I'd like to apologise for not posting last week, it was due to an illness but I am fine now. Thank you for asking 😀😁😀😁😀😎😎😎.

So back to it, I personally don't just watch movie for he fun of it, same as music that's why I am not so current with most of the songs trending in Nigeria. But I must commend one of the p2 by name Rudeboy for this wonderful song he titled "Reason with me", and I'd also advice you to download it and watch the mp4.

Let us learn no to listen to every music that has no value or should I say music we learn nothing from, for me it's a waste of time,  a waste of data also. So long as the music has one or two things I can learn from it I'd gladly listen.


Now going by "reason with me" we saw how his girlfriend left him because to her him no get money😀😂😀😂🤣😁😁😁😀😁. That guy saying all girls love money, my friend will you shut up there🙄😏🙄😏🙄🙄. The difference between you and the guy in the short clip in that song is that Rudeboy in the music was hard-working, he has a dream, he has a vision, all he needed was time, he needed her to be patient and to believe in him. But you on the other hand you are just a lazy piece of s**t😏😏😏😏😏😏😏🙄🙄🙄 so hunku please don't compare yourself.

Ladies love money, they love comfort, the want to be secured, we know that, but some ladies believe in some guys, hard working guys with achievable vision. We ain't all stupid.

Guys go and hustle be hard-working don't sit down and play draft, or carry file around all in the name of job hunting. If you have been looking for a job for a long time without getting one, please give yourself a job. There's 1 million and 1 things to do legally and morally to make money, mostly in our country Nigeria.

Ladies, as for you trust me when I say we have almost the same power as the holy spirit when it comes to using our instinct to know a thing when used properly, you can tell when a guy is trying, you know when he is really working hard, you can tell if his future is bright🙄😏😏😏and please don't ask me how😀😁🤣🤣😂 cos I know that's the next thing one gel wee ask me😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

I am sure you saw the ending part of the reason with me story see enhhhh that thing dey pain die🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂trust me you don't wanna go through that pain. I am sure some ladies can relate when you see the guy who said please marry me and you were there trying to size him because you didn't think he has enough money to feed an extra mouth only for you to see pictures of him and his new bride😂😁😂😀😁😂😀😂😁😂😁trust me, iyaf do me and i beat my self up for months 😂😁😁😁😀😀😀. Thank God I know better.

Ladies if you are with a guy whose working hard, believe in him and support him in your own little way and don't leave him, but if he is lazy please walk out of the relationship. God will give us discerning spirit to know when to stay and when to leave so that we don't miss his gift/blessing. Amen

Let's support ourselves

So I have come to realise that some of our so-called friends hardly support our mission. They'd never help you market your stuffs, they'd never help you tell another friend about what you do but they'd always want you to dash them what you sell and that is so annoying😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡.

As in I literally had to blast one who was claiming friend. she was wicked and wanted to run me down. How can you always want me to give you items I sell for free🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍? You've never bought from me, when other people wanna buy same thing that I sell she'd rather prefer to advertise other people's products yet come to me for free stuffs. I blasted her that day and she never spoke to me again and I loved it. That was how I flushed every negative person around me.

What are we friends for if you cannot support me and I support you? Funny thing is I support people around me even if we do the same thing. I believe that as big as the sky is that's how big our market is.

Some people go say I no wan give them my strategies make them no sell pass me 🤣😂😂😂😂😂 See this mumu. Weda you give them  or not, na God himself dey elevate person 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 Ote!


Now to everyone running some kinda business or hustle. If your friends don't support you in what you do please ex-friend them. Leave them as acquaintance they ain't adding value to you in any way.

In conclusion let's keep doing what we know how to do best. God will elevate us and teach us all we need to know. If you notice people who support you more are people who you barely know. Just like a few darlings dem deyh carry my business like say na their own and it hurts me when I see those I call my friends not doing same .

Pay for It

You know one thing we should always have in mind is the fact that you are a good person and  can give all information about your business to a stranger or a friend does not mean they'd do the same. You are you, and you know you. You don't know them. Don't be surprised when things don't go the way you think they should.

I've taught a lot of people my business, even people I didn't know. Infact I've even taken them to my dealer, introducing them as family. But guess what? When they break through and have a new strategies to improve the business they'd never let me in on it.

I'd advice you rather pay for that trade or stuff you wanna learn, than expect people to teach you willingly. You'd be disappointed at their action.

You told him to teach you how to earn from online sales and he's been forming busy for you🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣. Uncle he really isn't busy 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪he just doesn't wanna teach you that's why he's doing you tantan😂😂🤪🤪🤪🤪😋😋😋😋😋.

We should learn to pay for certain things, better still, negotiate a kinda plan that'd benefit both of you in the absence of money.

I'd end by saying let's add value to what we do. And also let's bear in mind that for the fact you are good at heart don't mean every other person is. 🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀. Don't get your heart broken for no just reason🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♀. Love you guys

Who is a Feminist?🤗🤗🤗

In my last post I said I was going to explain who and what my own definition of a feminist is. Truthfully, there is a dictionary meaning of a feminist, but I wanna ask you who gave "feminist" a dictionary meaning?🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀.....  I am asking cause I don't know 😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.


Now for me I want to believe that some of us have also twisted the dictionary meaning of a feminist which, in my opinion, is so wrong.

According to an online contemporary English dictionary: A feminist is someone who supports equal rights for women.

Now society and internet has turned it to where women probably trample on their husbands, disrespect them by not being submissive and using feminism as an excuse for their wrong behaviours 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. Instead of aunty to say she had a very bad upbringing she'd hide under the umbrella of feminism🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.


In my own context, I am a strong feminist. And I'd break it down below. Just follow me and keep reading😁😁😁.

Some feminists say they haven't been heard. Well, I object. See what Proverbs 31:10 & 11says:  "A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value."
If he doesn't listen to you he doesn't have full confidence in you, simple.

A feminist is a hard working woman. She does things in alignment to God's word. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
The Bible further buttressed the hard working woman by saying, she considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.

A feminist is so respectful that Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land unlike what we hear and see on the internet today. Once a woman is caught in infidelity by her husband or so or when she's displayed a very bad attitude towards her marriage the next thing we hear is her talking BS and claiming feminism❌❌❌❌❌.

A feminist is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”  A feminist is noticed and seen for her greatness in all of these mentioned and not for being disrespectful or for lack of submission. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

I will conclude by saying for me the best definition of who a feminist is or what ladies should follow  so they can be distinguished amongst other women is to follow the God definition of who a feminist is in Proverbs 31:10-31.
Please ladies let's not destroy our home or character with what we watch and see on the internet, let's not be deceived by what society dishes out. It's all a mirage, it isn't real and this isn't just for the married ladies alone but for all woman.

May God help us all

This isn't Feminism, just be human😏🙄

Ok so I got upset yesterday. How can you feel because you are the one bringing the most reasonable amount of money your word should be yes and amen😒😒😒😒.

First of all, guys I think we should learn to appreciate our siblings regardless of your position in the family. He may not be earning as much as you do, she may not be contributing so much, but let every little effort from the member of the family be appreciated.


Imagine someone having a notion that because he brings the money you should always cook 😒😒😒😒! And please brothers stop giving me the "So when you marry you'd give your husband the excuse of you going to work and coming back late😒😒😒" sermon. Let I and my husband worry about that😋😋😋😋😋😋😋.


You work, probably get a good pay. I hustle/do business, my money is not always a constant K like yours, both of us went to work and we are both human. Just like you can come back tired I can also come back tired. So getting upset bcos of food no follow at all 🙄🙄🙄🙄😒😒. And then using that "After all na me dey bring money" line no make sense.


In conclusion, let us learn to respect each other, brothers and sisters alike. Siblings always have this ish of 'see finish' or should I say using the power of seniority 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂, abeg who that one epp. No be other big brothers dey give their younger one money for upkeep and other things?

Please lemme oooo. Lemme come and be going 🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀ this has got nothing to do with feminism. In my next post I'd give you a good example or an explanation of what and who a feminist is. I mean my own definition and not what the society has made it become.

Love you guys. Stay blessed brothers and sisters, respect yourselves