Now for me I want to believe that some of us have also twisted the dictionary meaning of a feminist which, in my opinion, is so wrong.
According to an online contemporary English dictionary: A feminist is someone who supports equal rights for women.
Now society and internet has turned it to where women probably trample on their husbands, disrespect them by not being submissive and using feminism as an excuse for their wrong behaviours 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. Instead of aunty to say she had a very bad upbringing she'd hide under the umbrella of feminism🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.
In my own context, I am a strong feminist. And I'd break it down below. Just follow me and keep reading😁😁😁.
Some feminists say they haven't been heard. Well, I object. See what Proverbs 31:10 & 11says: "A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value."
If he doesn't listen to you he doesn't have full confidence in you, simple.
A feminist is a hard working woman. She does things in alignment to God's word. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
The Bible further buttressed the hard working woman by saying, she considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
A feminist is so respectful that Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land unlike what we hear and see on the internet today. Once a woman is caught in infidelity by her husband or so or when she's displayed a very bad attitude towards her marriage the next thing we hear is her talking BS and claiming feminism❌❌❌❌❌.
A feminist is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” A feminist is noticed and seen for her greatness in all of these mentioned and not for being disrespectful or for lack of submission. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
I will conclude by saying for me the best definition of who a feminist is or what ladies should follow so they can be distinguished amongst other women is to follow the God definition of who a feminist is in Proverbs 31:10-31.
Please ladies let's not destroy our home or character with what we watch and see on the internet, let's not be deceived by what society dishes out. It's all a mirage, it isn't real and this isn't just for the married ladies alone but for all woman.
May God help us all
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