Sunday 17 February 2019

Your Worth

The economy of Nigeria has made it so difficult for us to act our worth. These days depression has been the order of the day. We have lost our self worth so much that we value our self less than we truely are worth.

We tend to feel less important or less beautiful if we don't get compliment from orders.... Stop there,  who told you that you cannot compliment yourself?

Everyone wants to be noticed, successful at al. Some people have this mentality that you are only recognized by your wealth. Says who? There are lots of billionaires and trillionaire in Nigeria that we don't even know.

Knowing your worth is you knowing who you are, what you are capable of doing and believing in yourself. Why let irrelevant things borther you? Why let things that don't matter make you depressed?

For those of us in business. When you know your worth, you would not beg a customer/client to patronise you. You have a standard. Maintain your standard and don't go lower just because of Nigeria economy. If he/she wouldn't pay the right amount for your product/services let them go. Don't reduce your self, because when you do, standing on that standard will be difficult.

Truth is, when you start going below your standard you will keep going below it.

Ladies if he hits you in a relationship please take a walk. Leave the relationship. Leaving the relationship isn't a weakness, it is you realising your worth. Don't let him fool you with "I love you that's why I hit you..." 😒👿 Seriously you can't be that stupid 😒. If he doesn't treat you right leave and same goes to the guys.
Over time I realised that when we choose to be matured, we begin to think right, realising how stupid or foolish we have been in the past and correcting the errors. At this stage you are beginning to know your worth.

Who says you need alot of friends to survive? All you need is the right friend and your worth is what attracts them.

Never let anyone talk you down, do not give no one the power to steal your happiness. You have the right to be happy. Not even Nigerian economy has the right to take it from you.

Some of us keep saying "country hard" yet businesses are growing, companies are growing. Look for means to add value to people in exchange for money and know your worth. Stand with your head high and tall, walk upright with your shoulders high, build yourself, it isn't pride, it is knowing your self - worth

I believe I am speaking to someone at this point, I believe I am helping someone come out of his or her depression. We are blacks, we are Africans and we are strong.

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