The Smart Ones

So you guys become really close doing almost everything together, as a lady you are crazy about him and he isn't saying anything and you've not seen him with a babe, cos he really gives you his attention, he cares for you but he's not saying anything like I want you to be my woman or she's always with you giving you the green card, doing what a girl lover does dor her man, you know like care for you, check up, brings you meal, infact una fit Don deyh 😘 😘 😘 and all of that yet when you told her you liked her and wants her to be your woman she said let's be friends for now.

Don't think these things happen to only the ladies it happens to the guy as well. Infact I think the rate at which ladies do these things this days due to greed is alarming. Sometimes these ladies could be in a serious relationship but because of what they are benefiting they'd rather play along with you praying they don't get casted.🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 Orishirishi

If he is all around you doing what your man is supposed to do and yet he hasn't asked you out or anything give yourself brain and distance yourself 🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂, if you cannot ask him so what exactly are we doing. I heard ladies say they started a relationship by helping the guy ask which isn't bad but for me I think it reduces your respect. Don't get me wrong I said for me😒😒😒.

He hasn't come out straight to you on what you guys are, but he is enjoying the benefit of being your man and because you are madly in love with him you keep praying and waiting he says something, you keep hanging around infact you've marked him as your territory. Every guy that comes to you wouldn't stay because the other guy is everywhere all around you and they'd all feel you guys are dating but in the real sense na only you deyh date am.😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂 The annoying thing about some of these guys when you bring it up they'd tell you but I told you I am not ready for a relationship..😒🙄🤣 which means they totally know what they are doing 🙆🏼‍♀🙆🏼‍♀🙆🏼‍♀🙆🏼‍♀🙆🏼‍♀they are smart ass niggis😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂, seriously but I thought we are couple😓😭😭😭😭

You see for the ladies it takes so long till it Dawn on them that they have been wasting their time and it hurts so badly and this is because when a woman loves sometimes they love carelessly.

Ok let me not beat around the bush so much if he doesn't come out rightly to tell you what he want please do not get so attached to him, infact run🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏼‍♀🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂🏃🏽‍♂, because he's just gonna stand on the way for your man to enter yet he's not gonna walk through the door🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀🤷🏼‍♀very smart dudes. They prolly using you to pass time, forget or try letting go a heart break or so while you on the other hand is loving up so badly😓😓😓😓😢😢😢😢

Guys if you ask her out and she says let's be friends please move on🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏼‍♀🚶🏽‍♂🚶🏽‍♂🚶🏽‍♂ to the next lady that you like, I mean serious minded guys ooooo😒😒😒😒😒.


Let's stop putting our selves through unnecessary heart break. If you have to do it the old school way, let it be. Let him officially ask you out and you'd officially say yes and they'd know you guys are officially dating. Let's stop giving them the power to keep messing us up. Guys if you officially ask her out and she officially says let's be friends be her friend officially🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭 and go date another lady😒😒😒 do not stick around and be hoping she wee comman meet you and say ok I am ready for you now🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♀🙅🏼‍♂🙅🏼‍♂🙅🏼‍♂ date another lady and be happy😁😁

Also remember an official relationship can still be broken but at least you know you was in a relationship.

May God not let us come across time wasters in our life. Amen